The Tapestry.
Meeting people is like the different threads being woven into one tapestry.
Good skills and patience results in a beautiful tapestry.
On the other hand, the unskilled and rushed ones results in a kuku tapestry that is rough and full of knots.
It's the maker who controls the weaving, like how a person control one's own life. You got to understand each thread (what it is like) and act accordingly. You cannot force Red to be like this and Green to be like that. They are what they are. ADAPT is the word. ACCEPTANCE too.
We didnt become close/good/best friends overnight. It needs time, care, concern, understanding and respect.

quotes koped from Carmella's and ShuChen's blog.
and a quote I love
” If you judge people, you have no time to love them. “
Mother teresa. I love & admire her a lot (:
Quote of the day: "Those who matters, don't mind. Those who mind, don't matter." - Mella (2010)
I thought it really makes a lot of sense. (noting the fact that "a lot" has spacing else mana would breathe down my neck, probably.) So which catergory do you think you fall into?
End of talkingcrap session.
finally going to post this up after being so lazy write finish.